Look At, Glance At, as in Will You Take a Gander at That Woman's Red Hair! This Slangy Slangy "Kiki" (Alternately Kiking or a Ki) Is a Term Which Grew out of Black Lgbtq American Social Culture, and Is Loosely Defined as a Gathering of Friends for the Purpose of Gossiping and Chit-Chat, and Later Made More Widely Known in the Song "Let's Have a Kiki" by the Scissor Sisters. › Wiki › Kiki_(Social_Gathering) Kiki (Social Gathering) - Wikipedia Idiom, Dating from the Early 1900S, Presumably Came from the Verb Gander, Meaning “Stretch One's Neck to See, ” Possibly Alluding to the Long Neck of the Male Goose.