Under Which Conditions May a Patient Be Involuntarily Committed?
These adult children are often less connected to the family (treating the home as a “hotel”, as you say) and even displaying more serious problems such as drinking, and so on, which were not present when they were younger.
Why does my daughter think mother is to blame?
From what you wrote, your daughter has the mindset that, if something goes wrong for her, it must be mother’s fault. You have identified the reason for this fixed reaction: your over-commitment to your work when she was a child. She probably doesn’t know this.